Hello Emma,
Profile synthesis
On the terrain of connection with others, what follows describes relational dynamics — ways of relating that can evolve, not verdicts. Your answers reveal some moderate signals. Without dramatizing, these elements can be observed and discussed with a trusted person. A moderate situation is not a trivial one: it describes very real difficulties, simply not yet overwhelming. It is often at this stage that it is easiest to act, before things settle in for good. Briefly noting the moments when the situation weighs more — when, with whom, in what context — helps you see clearly and makes the conversation easier, whether with a loved one or a professional.
Overall result
Couple in transitionYour relationship is going through a transitional phase, with areas of vitality and areas of distance.
Your profile at a glance
Detailed analysis
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
Your intimate connection is still present and active.
Your answers for residual intimacy do not indicate that this dimension is a central point of the situation you currently describe. This may mean that the situation does not particularly engage this facet, or that it has remained stable on this point. This is not a detail, however: knowing where the situation does not weigh helps you better pinpoint where it does, and therefore focus your attention in the right place. This observation is useful to keep as a benchmark: if the situation evolves, comparing it to future answers will help measure its meaning and direction. A dimension that is stable today may stay that way, or shift if the context changes — hence the value of not losing sight of it.
Recommendations
- ✓You can explore the other dimensions.
This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
Shared projects have dwindled somewhat.
Your answers for shared projects reveal moderate signals. Without dramatizing, these elements deserve to be observed over time: a moderate dimension that settles in can become more pervasive through accumulation. The moderate level, in a situation, is often the moment when one hesitates — "am I overreacting? am I imagining things?": this doubt is normal, and it takes nothing away from the legitimacy of what you feel. If you wish, taking brief notes about the moments when this dimension is more present can help understand the triggers and spot any patterns. This tracking can also be useful if you decide to talk to a professional or someone you trust: concrete, dated elements are easier to share than a diffuse impression.
Recommendations
- ✓You can try to identify a concrete shared project to start.
- ✓Talking about it with your partner can reopen this space.
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
Complicity is still alive in your relationship.
On complicity, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
- ✓You can explore the other dimensions.
This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
Some distance has settled without being dominant.
On settled distance, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
- ✓You can name this distance with your partner.
- ✓You can identify what encouraged it.
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
You're not yet ready to take concrete steps. That's a valid stage.
On readiness to act, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
- ✓You can re-read your results with curiosity, without pressure.
Your action plan
Right now
- →If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services.
- →Shared projects — You can try to identify a concrete shared project to start.
- →Shared projects — Talking about it with your partner can reopen this space.
- →Settled distance — You can name this distance with your partner.
- →Settled distance — You can identify what encouraged it.
In the coming weeks
- →Keep regular follow-up of the situation: if signals increase, it is time to talk to a professional.
In the long run
- →Retake this questionnaire in 3 to 6 months to observe the evolution of the situation. If scores increase, it is a signal to discuss with a professional.
- →Identify a resource person (trusted loved one, professional, helpline) with whom to talk about this situation safely, even if you are not ready to say everything.
- →Set up a minimum safety plan (safe place, emergency contacts, important documents accessible) if the situation requires — it is preparation, not a decision.
Resources & exercise
7-day observation journal
Each day, spot one situation where “Shared projects” showed up. Note the automatic thought, the emotion (0–100) and what you did. Then write one more balanced, alternative reading. After 7 days, re-read your notes: the recurring patterns become visible — the first step to change them.
Support resources
If you are struggling, you are not alone. United States: call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7). Elsewhere: find your local line at findahelpline.com. This report supports self-knowledge and does not replace a consultation with a psychologist or doctor.
Find a professional
To go further, working with a professional is valuable. A few trusted directories to find a practitioner near you:
Tip: prioritise licensed/registered professionals and evidence-based therapies (e.g. CBT).
How this report is produced
This report is generated by artificial intelligence from your answers only, structured around recognised clinical models (attachment theory, CBT, Young’s schemas…) cited within the report. No health professional is involved in writing it. It is a self-knowledge tool, not a diagnosis: the analyses are avenues for understanding to weigh against your own experience, and do not replace the assessment of a health professional.
Your answers in detail
1. I sometimes spontaneously want to be physically close to my partner.
Answer : Somewhat agree
You answered "Somewhat agree". Can you tell me more about when this comes up for you?
It mainly shows up in situations that matter to me, when I feel under pressure or emotionally involved.
2. There is still tenderness in our everyday gestures.
Answer : Somewhat agree
And how long have you noticed this?
It has been more present over the past few months, though I recognise it from before too.
3. Our sex life feels satisfying to me (or its absence doesn't bother me).
Answer : Somewhat agree
4. I feel close to my partner beyond the logistics of daily life.
Answer : Somewhat agree
5. We sometimes look at each other with something that feels like tenderness or desire.
Answer : Somewhat agree
6. I no longer really feel like initiating intimate moments.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
7. …
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