Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators Test
Assess the health of your relationship across four key dimensions
Detailed report (interpreted score, radar chart, clinical frameworks, action plan) available after the test, for €2.99.
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Your report includes
- ✓Overall score with interpretation
- ✓Analysis of each dimension
- ✓Detailed radar chart
- ✓Personalized recommendations
- ✓Resources and exercises
- ✓Our questions, your answers
- ✓PDF book included : « The Practical CBT Guide »
- ✓Option to leave a review
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The Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators is a 64-question self-assessment measuring 5 key dimensions. Assessment of relational foundations: positive predictors, positive/negative balance, mutual admiration, and conflict repair capacity. After completing it you get an instant overview, then a detailed PDF report (€2.99): scores per dimension, a radar chart and a personalized action plan. This tool is for self-knowledge and does not replace a professional consultation.
About this test
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Are your relationship's foundations solid, or do some areas deserve attention? John Gottman's research on thousands of couples has identified key markers that distinguish lasting relationships from those that erode. These markers are not about the absence of conflict — all couples have conflict — but about how a relationship nurtures, repairs, and maintains a positive foundation. This test explores four fundamental dimensions: the presence of active positive predictors (curiosity about your partner, rituals, shared projects), the balance between positive and negative interactions (Gottman identifies a 5:1 ratio as a stability indicator), the quality of mutual admiration and respect, and the couple's ability to repair after inevitable friction. Each dimension receives a detailed score with concrete suggestions. This questionnaire is a reflection tool — it does not replace the support of a couple therapist or psychologist.
Dimensions assessed
- ●Positive Predictors- Active presence of positive relational vitality markers: curiosity about your partner, shared rituals, common projects, spontaneous warmth.
- ●Positive/Negative Balance- Balance between positive and negative interactions in the relationship. Gottman identifies a ratio of at least 5 positive interactions per negative one as a stability marker.
- ●Admiration and Respect- Mutual appreciation, recognition of each other's qualities, respect during disagreements, and expression of affection.
- ●Conflict Repair- The couple's capacity to reconnect after friction, to apologise sincerely, and to avoid the accumulation of resentment.
- ●Readiness to Change- Measures your current readiness to become aware of the state of your relationship and to engage in a process of growth.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Positive Predictors, Positive/Negative Balance, Admiration and Respect, Conflict Repair, Readiness to Change. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 15 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
The actual questions are not shown here: you discover them when you start the test.
How does it work?
Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 15 min.
See your preview
Once you finish, you immediately see a preview of your overall score and profile by dimension — no registration required.
Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Positive Predictors, Positive/Negative Balance, Admiration and Respect, Conflict Repair, Readiness to Change. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 15 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report (18 pages) with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations is available for €2.99.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Positive Predictors, Positive/Negative Balance, Admiration and Respect...) using validated assessment scales. However, it is a self-assessment tool and does not replace a professional clinical diagnosis.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional. It is not a clinical diagnostic tool and does not replace a specialist consultation.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Is My Relationship Solid? The Gottman Indicators as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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