Your comparative report
Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? — two profiles, one test, taken independently
Emma & Noah
WHAT YOUR TWO ANSWERS REVEAL
What you couldn't have known about each other
Emma 88% · Noah 67% — Relationship resilience
On your relationship resilience, Emma scores 88%, Noah scores 67%. This 21-point gap doesn't show up in an ordinary conversation — it's exactly the kind of mismatch that, left unspoken, feeds recurring tension neither of you can quite explain.
What this changes, concretely
Because Emma perceives your relationship resilience much more positively than Noah, one simple rule changes things: next time the topic comes up, each of you names your own felt score ("for me it's high" / "for me it's low") before discussing it. The gap becomes a topic — not an unspoken thing that keeps building up.
Overview
Overall convergence score
91%
Vos perceptions sont très proches
Dimension-by-dimension analysis
For each dimension of the test, here is how your answers compare — and what this gap (or closeness) may mean for the two of you.
Conflict management — 3 pts
Emma 83% · Noah 80%
On your conflict management, your answers converge clearly (a 3-point gap). This is a shared way of seeing things — a solid foundation to build on.
Relationship resilience — 21 pts
Emma 88% · Noah 67%
On your relationship resilience, your answers diverge clearly (21 points) — this is exactly the kind of mismatch that, left unspoken, can feed recurring misunderstandings. This isn't proof of incompatibility: it's an invitation to talk about it, each of you holding a perception that is equally valid.
Mutual commitment — 9 pts
Emma 63% · Noah 72%
On your mutual commitment, a nuance (9 points) separates your answers — subtle enough that it's unlikely to cause friction, but real. It's worth naming, if only to know each other better on this point.
Relationship satisfaction — 5 pts
Emma 78% · Noah 73%
On your relationship satisfaction, your answers converge clearly (a 5-point gap). This is a shared way of seeing things — a solid foundation to build on.
Readiness for change
This score is personal to each respondent — it is never averaged or directly compared, since one person's readiness for change says nothing about the other's.
Emma
75%
High readiness for change
Noah
56%
Emerging readiness
Talking about it together
This report isn't a conclusion — it's a starting point. Here are a few prompts to open the conversation, without pressure and without trying to "win":
- What do you think explains the 21-point gap on your relationship resilience?
- On your mutual commitment, what had you never said out loud before this report?
- Beyond the gaps above, what surprised you in the other person's answers?
This report compares two perceptions — neither is "the truth". There is simply yours and your partner's, and the gap between them is what's worth exploring together.
This report was generated automatically from your answers to an online questionnaire. It draws on recognized psychological models but does not constitute a medical or psychological diagnosis, nor couples therapy. For support, consult a mental health professional or a couples therapist.
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