Analyze your relationship messages
and understand your communication patterns.
Your conversations can say far more than you might think. Whether it’s a romantic relationship or a friendship, ScanMyLove analyzes your text messages.
The Essential report costs $3.69 and the Premium report $4.99.
Understand my relationship →ScanMyLove looks at different aspects of your conversations using 14 psychology-based frameworks, including attachment, communication patterns and relationship dynamics. Your report includes examples from your own messages, along with personalized insights and recommendations.
Your report is available immediately after the analysis.
Want to see what you’ll receive? View a sample report.
If you have any questions after receiving your report, email us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com. A practitioner will reply within 48 hours.
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What our users say
Thousands of people use ScanMyLove to better understand their relationships.
How does it work?
Upload
Export your conversation or take screenshots from any messaging app and drop the file. No account needed.
Analyze
14 clinical psychology models (Gottman, Young, Bowlby, Chapman, Karpman…) are automatically applied in seconds.
Understand
Your scores across 10 dimensions, your personalized recommendations and your dedicated assistant are waiting for you in the Essential Report, from $3.69.
What your report reveals
Concrete answers to the questions you have about your relationship.
Pricing
Essential Report $3.69. Premium Report $4.99.
One-time payment, secured by Stripe. Chat included.
See detailed pricing →Frequently asked questions
Upload a text export — WhatsApp, Messenger, Instagram, Telegram, or an iMessage conversation copied from Messages on your Mac — or simply screenshots, which work with every app (SMS, Tinder, Bumble, Snapchat…). Receive your report in minutes. No sign-up required.
Yes. No account, no sign-up. For report generation, your conversation is anonymized before being sent to our analysis AI; the chat included with the report is not anonymized. The source file is deleted immediately after report generation (Premium), or within 30 days maximum (Essential — kept so you can upgrade later). The participants’ first names are kept with the generated report, which remains permanently accessible via your personal link. Full details in our Privacy Policy.
- Your first and last names, and your correspondent's — replaced with “Person A”, “Person B”. Your dates of birth.
- Your phone numbers, email addresses and postal addresses.
- Your GPS coordinates and any location links you share.
- Your entry codes: door code, intercom, gate, garage, alarm, safe, padlock, badge, key box.
- Your passwords, PIN codes, codes received by text, recovery codes, Wi-Fi keys and login details.
- Your bank cards, IBAN, bank details, BIC, security codes, account numbers and cryptocurrency wallets.
- Your documents: social security, tax number, ID card, passport, driving licence, residence permit, health card, case numbers.
- Your references: contracts, insurance, health cover, medical files, staff number, student number, orders, bookings, meters, number plate, vehicle registration.
- Your social media accounts: handles and profile links.
ScanMyLove analyzes your messages using 14 interpretive frameworks and organizes the results into a report with scores, charts and prompts for reflection.
Theoretical references alone do not establish the validity of this automated analysis or the reproducibility of its scores. This report is not a medical diagnosis.
No. ScanMyLove is an awareness tool, not a medical diagnosis. The report helps identify relationship dynamics and guides toward professional support if needed. It’s a complement, not a substitute.