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Find out what your texts
really say about your relationship.

Something feels off but you can't quite put your finger on it? Upload your conversations and get a clear report on what's really going on between you two.

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What our users say

Thousands of people use ScanMyLove to better understand their relationships.

I analyzed a year of chats with my partner: confirmed he’s avoidant and I’m more the anxious/dependent type 🙂. So insightful and strikingly accurate.

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Emma L., 30 years old

WhatsApp couple analysis

I had a 30,000-word conversation with my boyfriend: the results were surprising and incredibly insightful. I really didn’t see any of it.

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Madison R., 27 years old

Long conversation analysis

The report quality is impressive and so easy to read. It spotted signs of control I had never identified.

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Jennifer B., 34 years old

2-year couple analysis

Super fast and relevant analysis: in a few minutes I had a clear read on how we communicate. A genuinely well-made tool.

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Brittany M., 25 years old

Messenger analysis

A year and a half of messages with my husband analyzed: the report puts very precise words on an imbalance we felt but couldn’t explain.

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Samantha D., 38 years old

Couple analysis

After my breakup, I analyzed our ten months of conversation. Understanding the patterns helped more than weeks of ruminating.

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Amanda T., 29 years old

Post-breakup analysis

I was skeptical, but analyzing three years of messages gave a nuanced, solid result, never guilt-inducing. Impressively relevant.

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Nicole K., 41 years old

Relationship analysis

I analyzed my dating-app chats. I understood why it always fell apart at the same point 🙂. Easy to read and very clear.

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Taylor V., 23 years old

Dating app analysis

I analyzed a year of WhatsApp with my girlfriend: confirmed I was the avoidant one. Hard to hear, but very insightful and well explained.

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Jake P., 33 years old

WhatsApp analysis

We analyzed two years of our conversation together. The report is clear and we read it as a couple: it opened a real, calm discussion.

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Kevin G., 36 years old

Couple analysis

Thousands of messages analyzed in minutes. I realized I always replied out of sync — a source of misunderstandings. Fast and relevant.

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Brandon R., 28 years old

Text message analysis

A genuinely relevant tool: analyzing a year of chats gives an objective read of the relationship, far from heated takes. Clear, well-structured report.

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Tyler B., 31 years old

Conversation analysis

How does it work?

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Upload

Export your conversation or take screenshots from any messaging app and drop the file. No account needed.

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Analyze

14 clinical psychology models (Gottman, Young, Bowlby, Chapman, Karpman…) are automatically applied in seconds.

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Understand

Get your statistics dashboard for free: your scores across 10 dimensions, made clear. To go further, the full report — personalized action plan and a dedicated assistant — is available from $2.19.

What your report reveals

Concrete answers to the questions you have about your relationship.

Pricing

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What Your Texts Say About Your Relationship - ScanMyLove