Your comparative report
Compatible attachment styles — two profiles, one test, taken independently
Emma & Noah
WHAT YOUR TWO ANSWERS REVEAL
What you couldn't have known about each other
Emma 88% · Noah 67% — Anxious attachment
On your anxious attachment, Emma scores 88%, Noah scores 67%. This 21-point gap doesn't show up in an ordinary conversation — it's exactly the kind of mismatch that, left unspoken, feeds recurring tension neither of you can quite explain.
What this changes, concretely
Because Emma perceives your anxious attachment much more positively than Noah, one simple rule changes things: next time the topic comes up, each of you names your own felt score ("for me it's high" / "for me it's low") before discussing it. The gap becomes a topic — not an unspoken thing that keeps building up.
Overview
Overall convergence score
91%
Vos perceptions sont très proches
Dimension-by-dimension analysis
For each dimension of the test, here is how your answers compare — and what this gap (or closeness) may mean for the two of you.
Secure attachment — 3 pts
Emma 83% · Noah 80%
On your secure attachment, your answers converge clearly (a 3-point gap). This is a shared way of seeing things — a solid foundation to build on.
Anxious attachment — 21 pts
Emma 88% · Noah 67%
On your anxious attachment, your answers diverge clearly (21 points) — this is exactly the kind of mismatch that, left unspoken, can feed recurring misunderstandings. This isn't proof of incompatibility: it's an invitation to talk about it, each of you holding a perception that is equally valid.
Avoidant attachment — 9 pts
Emma 63% · Noah 72%
On your avoidant attachment, a nuance (9 points) separates your answers — subtle enough that it's unlikely to cause friction, but real. It's worth naming, if only to know each other better on this point.
Fearful attachment — 5 pts
Emma 78% · Noah 73%
On your fearful attachment, your answers converge clearly (a 5-point gap). This is a shared way of seeing things — a solid foundation to build on.
Your dynamic as a couple
Your dominant attachment style (anxious) meets your partner's (secure). Here is what this combination typically produces in a relationship:
An anxious style and a secure style form a configuration where what is sought — a presence that holds — is genuinely available. What this pair produces that is precious: the stability of the secure profile can become, for the anxious profile, a corrective experience — evidence that a partner's calm can be a form of love, not distance. The recurring friction: the anxious profile may sometimes read the other's serenity as detachment, and feel their own need for reassurance as a burden. What becomes possible when this reading evolves: the anxious profile can learn, within this relationship, that their own presence — not only the other's responses — is enough.
Readiness for change
This score is personal to each respondent — it is never averaged or directly compared, since one person's readiness for change says nothing about the other's.
Emma
75%
High readiness for change
Noah
56%
Emerging readiness
Talking about it together
This report isn't a conclusion — it's a starting point. Here are a few prompts to open the conversation, without pressure and without trying to "win":
- What do you think explains the 21-point gap on your anxious attachment?
- On your avoidant attachment, what had you never said out loud before this report?
- Beyond the gaps above, what surprised you in the other person's answers?
This report compares two perceptions — neither is "the truth". There is simply yours and your partner's, and the gap between them is what's worth exploring together.
This report was generated automatically from your answers to an online questionnaire. It draws on recognized psychological models but does not constitute a medical or psychological diagnosis, nor couples therapy. For support, consult a mental health professional or a couples therapist.
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