14 clinical psychology models
One report
ScanMyLove analyzes your messages using 14 interpretive frameworks and organizes the results into a report with scores, charts and prompts for reflection.
The 14 models
Each model sheds light on a different aspect of your relationship. Click a card to learn more.
Gottman Method
The 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse + positive/negative ratio 5:1.
Young’s Schemas
18 early maladaptive schemas identified and scored.
Attachment Styles
Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized profiled per person.
Cognitive Distortions (Beck)
Mind reading, personalization, emotional reasoning.
Sternberg’s Triangle
Intimacy, Passion, Commitment scored on 3 axes.
5 Love Languages (Chapman)
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch.
Nonviolent Communication (Rosenberg)
Observation/Feeling/Need/Request vs. judgment.
Karpman’s Triangle
Persecutor, Victim, Rescuer.
DISC Profile
Dominant, Influential, Steady, Conscientious.
Polyvagal Theory (Porges)
Ventral (connection), Sympathetic (fight/flight), Dorsal (freeze).
Johari Window
Open, blind, hidden, unknown zone.
Schutz’s FIRO
Inclusion, Control, Affection needs — expressed vs. wanted.
Walker Cycle
Tension → Explosion → Reconciliation → Honeymoon.
Duluth Wheel
8 control mechanisms (intimidation, isolation, minimization…).
Explore each model in detail
See how each model is applied to your conversations with examples, FAQs and resources.
Gottman Method
The 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse + positive/negative ratio 5:1.
Young’s Schemas
18 early maladaptive schemas identified and scored.
Attachment Styles
Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized profiled per person.
Cognitive Distortions (Beck)
Mind reading, personalization, emotional reasoning.
Sternberg’s Triangle
Intimacy, Passion, Commitment scored on 3 axes.
5 Love Languages (Chapman)
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch.
Nonviolent Communication (Rosenberg)
Observation/Feeling/Need/Request vs. judgment.
Karpman’s Triangle
Persecutor, Victim, Rescuer.
DISC Profile
Dominant, Influential, Steady, Conscientious.
Polyvagal Theory (Porges)
Ventral (connection), Sympathetic (fight/flight), Dorsal (freeze).
Johari Window
Open, blind, hidden, unknown zone.
Schutz’s FIRO
Inclusion, Control, Affection needs — expressed vs. wanted.
Walker Cycle
Tension → Explosion → Reconciliation → Honeymoon.
Duluth Wheel
8 control mechanisms (intimidation, isolation, minimization…).
Our approach
« Theoretical references alone do not establish the validity of this automated analysis or the reproducibility of its scores. This report is not a medical diagnosis. »
Interpretation depends on the messages provided and their context.
A resource for reflecting on your conversations.
An assistant that already knows your story
With a regular AI, you have to re-explain everything each time. With ScanMyLove, the assistant has read your entire report before your first question.
It knows:
- ✓Your overall score and your 10 relationship dimensions
- ✓Your activated Young schemas and their intensity
- ✓Your attachment style and your partner’s
- ✓Your cognitive distortions
- ✓The breakpoints detected in your conversation
- ✓Your personalized action plan
Result: you ask your question and the answer is immediately in your context. No recapping, no setting the scene. It’s like talking to a professional who has your complete file in front of them.
Essential Report: 10 exchanges included — Premium Report: 30 exchanges included
Frequently asked questions
ScanMyLove analyzes your messages using 14 interpretive frameworks and organizes the results into a report with scores, charts and prompts for reflection.
Theoretical references alone do not establish the validity of this automated analysis or the reproducibility of its scores. This report is not a medical diagnosis.
Each model illuminates a different aspect. Gottman measures toxicity, Young reveals wounds, Chapman identifies affective mismatches, Karpman detects power games. It’s their intersection that produces a complete understanding.
The assistant has read your entire report before your first question. It knows your score, your Young schemas, your attachment style, your cognitive distortions and your action plan. You don’t need to explain anything — just ask your question and the answer is immediately personalized. Essential Report includes 10 exchanges, Premium Report 30 exchanges. The conversation can be exported to PDF with the Premium Report.
No. ScanMyLove is an awareness tool, not a medical diagnosis. The report guides toward professional support. It’s a complement, not a substitute.
Ready to analyze your relationship?
14 clinical models. 20+ charts. A Premium report. 100% anonymous.
Analyze my conversation