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The Five Love Languages — Discover Your Profile
63 questions·10 min·6 dimensions and a separate readiness-to-change module·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
Reviewed by Gildas Garrec, CBT practitioner
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This test looks at the five love languages: the channel through which affection reaches you and the one through which you send it — words of affirmation, the concrete acts that make life lighter, gifts as signs, time of full presence, physical touch. The report indicates your main channel.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 63 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book Saving Your Relationship, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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The Five Love Languages — Discover Your Profile — a 63-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at the five love languages: words, concrete acts, gifts, time of full presence, physical touch. The report indicates your main channel. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): an interpretation of its 6 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test covers recognition, speaking your mind, support, reassurance, memory, attention, time, affection, loneliness, the relationship and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example Recognition If a sincere compliment lifts your mood for hours. If, when your partner says something beautiful about you, it changes your whole day. Speaking your mind If you find it natural to express your love through words. If you think of ways to put your affection into words for the people you love. Support If, when your partner does something to lighten your load, you feel truly loved. If you feel seen and understood when someone helps you without your having to ask. Reassurance If receiving nothing for an important event, when you would have done it, makes you feel a lack. If a souvenir brought back from a trip moves you because it says you were being thought of. Memory If you remember kind words that were said to you for a long time. If you remember for a long time the gifts you have received and the meaning behind them. Attention If, when your partner is distracted or on their phone while you are talking, you feel unimportant. If having undivided attention, even for a short moment, matters a great deal to you. Time If having genuine shared time without distraction is what makes you feel closest to the other person. If you dedicate genuine and fully present time to those you love, without multitasking. Affection If touching the other person, a hand on the shoulder or a brief touch, is your natural way of expressing affection. If physical tenderness, holding hands or being shoulder to shoulder, makes you feel close. Loneliness If, when your partner offers you little physical tenderness or closeness, you feel lonely. If, in difficult moments, physical contact and being held is the main thing that helps you. The relationship If you like to mark moments, dates, milestones and shared rituals. If shared rituals, a morning coffee or a regular walk, are important anchors for you. Readiness to change If what you've just described has a real impact on your relationships. If you want to change the way you function.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Your take on how you receive and give love- How you explain your way of receiving and giving love, before the test tells you anything about it. This section does not measure any difficulty and does not produce a level: it collects a starting reading.
- ●Words of Affirmation- Expressing love through words: compliments, encouragements, 'I love you', tender messages, sincere verbal appreciation.
- ●Acts of Service- Expressing love through actions: helping, taking care of practical things, doing something for the other without being asked.
- ●Gifts- Expressing love through thoughtful gestures: gifts chosen with care, remembered dates, tokens that say 'I was thinking of you'.
- ●Quality Time- Expressing love through genuine shared presence: undivided attention, deep conversations, activities shared without distraction.
- ●Physical Touch- Expressing love through physical contact: tenderness, closeness, hugs, touch — non-sexual physical connection that says 'I am here'.
- ●Readiness to Explore- Measures your current readiness to explore the way you express and receive love, and to invest in evolving in this area.
Reference frameworks and authors
- This test is based on the conceptual framework of Gary Chapman's five love languages. It is not a clinically validated psychometric instrument. The love languages are a popular and useful model for understanding how people express and receive love, but they are not a psychological diagnostic tool. Results describe tendencies and preferences, not fixed or exclusive categories. The model does not replace the support of a couple therapist or psychologist. Chapman G — The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate (Gary Chapman, 1992)
Why take this test?
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This test looks at the five love languages: the channel through which affection reaches you and the one through which you send it — words of affirmation, the concrete acts that make life lighter, gifts as signs, time of full presence, physical touch. The report indicates your main channel.
The questionnaire explores 6 areas: Your take on how you receive and give love, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch. Your answers support reflection, not a diagnosis. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
Dimensions explored
These are the aspects explored by this questionnaire. Your answers help put them into perspective.
Your take on how you receive and give love
How you explain your way of receiving and giving love, before the test tells you anything about it. This section does not measure any difficulty and does not produce a level: it collects a starting reading.
Words of Affirmation
Expressing love through words: compliments, encouragements, 'I love you', tender messages, sincere verbal appreciation.
Acts of Service
Expressing love through actions: helping, taking care of practical things, doing something for the other without being asked.
Gifts
Expressing love through thoughtful gestures: gifts chosen with care, remembered dates, tokens that say 'I was thinking of you'.
Quality Time
Expressing love through genuine shared presence: undivided attention, deep conversations, activities shared without distraction.
Physical Touch
Expressing love through physical contact: tenderness, closeness, hugs, touch — non-sexual physical connection that says 'I am here'.
Readiness to Explore
Measures your current readiness to explore the way you express and receive love, and to invest in evolving in this area.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 63 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (6 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this test measure?
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This test evaluates 6 psychological dimensions: Your take on how you receive and give love, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch. The report distinguishes the areas explored and their limits of interpretation. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
How long does this test take?
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The test contains 63 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This questionnaire draws on 6 dimensions from recognized psychological frameworks (Your take on how you receive and give love, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service…). It's a self-assessment tool for reflection, not a clinical diagnostic instrument: it has not undergone formal psychometric validation (sample, reliability coefficient) and does not replace a professional assessment.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your report includes an analysis by dimension, explanations and personalised points for reflection and a separate readiness-to-change module. Scores are interpreted according to the purpose and limitations of this questionnaire.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is this test for?
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Read this test’s introduction and dimensions to check whether they match your situation. Answer from the perspective specified in the instructions.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake this test as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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The report organises your answers and offers points for reflection. You can discuss it with a professional; it does not replace their assessment or prescribe treatment.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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