Hello Emma,
Profile synthesis
On the terrain of connection with others, what follows describes relational dynamics — ways of relating that can evolve, not verdicts. Your answers reveal some moderate signals. Without dramatizing, these elements can be observed and discussed with a trusted person. A moderate situation is not a trivial one: it describes very real difficulties, simply not yet overwhelming. It is often at this stage that it is easiest to act, before things settle in for good. Briefly noting the moments when the situation weighs more — when, with whom, in what context — helps you see clearly and makes the conversation easier, whether with a loved one or a professional.
Overall result
Notable questioningYour answers describe significant questioning across several dimensions. What you are experiencing deserves attention — not urgently, but with curiosity and gentleness.
Your profile at a glance
Detailed analysis
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
Your answers don't describe a marked absence of desire. Fluctuations are normal, and your desire dynamic seems to function within a usual range.
Your answers for desire frequency do not indicate that this dimension is a central point of the situation you currently describe. This may mean that the situation does not particularly engage this facet, or that it has remained stable on this point. This is not a detail, however: knowing where the situation does not weigh helps you better pinpoint where it does, and therefore focus your attention in the right place. This observation is useful to keep as a benchmark: if the situation evolves, comparing it to future answers will help measure its meaning and direction. A dimension that is stable today may stay that way, or shift if the context changes — hence the value of not losing sight of it.
Recommendations
- ✓You might name what currently nourishes your desire and what diminishes it.
- ✓You might explore the other dimensions of this report to identify what could enrich it further.
This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
Your answers describe weakened triggers — less emotional connection, novelty, non-sexual intimacy, or favorable context. These are levers that can be worked on.
Your answers for desire triggers reveal moderate signals. Without dramatizing, these elements deserve to be observed over time: a moderate dimension that settles in can become more pervasive through accumulation. The moderate level, in a situation, is often the moment when one hesitates — "am I overreacting? am I imagining things?": this doubt is normal, and it takes nothing away from the legitimacy of what you feel. If you wish, taking brief notes about the moments when this dimension is more present can help understand the triggers and spot any patterns. This tracking can also be useful if you decide to talk to a professional or someone you trust: concrete, dated elements are easier to share than a diffuse impression.
Recommendations
- ✓You might identify precisely what used to activate your desire and try to recreate those contexts.
- ✓You might address the topic of non-sexual intimacy with your partner — it often precedes desire.
- ✓You might consult a couples therapist if emotional distance is a significant factor.
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
Your answers don't describe major psychological obstacles. Fatigue, stress or body image don't seem to significantly block your intimate life.
On psychological obstacles, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
- ✓You might continue to identify what supports your overall well-being — it sustains your desire.
- ✓You might explore other dimensions if your questioning concerns a different aspect.
This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
Your answers describe difficulties talking about your intimate needs: embarrassment, fear of hurting, settled silence, unexpressed expectations. These silences carry a real cost on desire.
On intimate communication, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
- ✓You might start with less intense topics: what you appreciate in your relationship, moments that bring you together.
- ✓You might consult a couples therapist if communication on this topic feels impossible.
- ✓You might explore for yourself what you would want to say before addressing your partner.
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
You are beginning to explore this topic — that is already a step. No pressure on pace.
On readiness to explore, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
- ✓You might reread your report with curiosity, without setting a goal.
- ✓You might ask yourself what brought you to take this test today.
Your action plan
Right now
- →If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services.
- →Desire Triggers — You might identify precisely what used to activate your desire and try to recreate those contexts.
- →Desire Triggers — You might address the topic of non-sexual intimacy with your partner — it often precedes desire.
- →Intimate Communication — You might start with less intense topics: what you appreciate in your relationship, moments that bring you together.
- →Intimate Communication — You might consult a couples therapist if communication on this topic feels impossible.
In the coming weeks
- →Intimate Communication — You might explore for yourself what you would want to say before addressing your partner.
In the long run
- →Retake this questionnaire in 3 to 6 months to observe the evolution of the situation. If scores increase, it is a signal to discuss with a professional.
- →Identify a resource person (trusted loved one, professional, helpline) with whom to talk about this situation safely, even if you are not ready to say everything.
- →Set up a minimum safety plan (safe place, emergency contacts, important documents accessible) if the situation requires — it is preparation, not a decision.
Resources & exercise
7-day observation journal
Each day, spot one situation where “Desire Triggers” showed up. Note the automatic thought, the emotion (0–100) and what you did. Then write one more balanced, alternative reading. After 7 days, re-read your notes: the recurring patterns become visible — the first step to change them.
Support resources
If you are struggling, you are not alone. United States: call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7). Elsewhere: find your local line at findahelpline.com. This report supports self-knowledge and does not replace a consultation with a psychologist or doctor.
Find a professional
To go further, working with a professional is valuable. A few trusted directories to find a practitioner near you:
Tip: prioritise licensed/registered professionals and evidence-based therapies (e.g. CBT).
How this report is produced
This report is generated by artificial intelligence from your answers only, structured around recognised clinical models (attachment theory, CBT, Young’s schemas…) cited within the report. No health professional is involved in writing it. It is a self-knowledge tool, not a diagnosis: the analyses are avenues for understanding to weigh against your own experience, and do not replace the assessment of a health professional.
Your answers in detail
1. I rarely have sexual or erotic thoughts or urges.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
You answered "Somewhat disagree". Can you tell me more about when this comes up for you?
It mainly shows up in situations that matter to me, when I feel under pressure or emotionally involved.
2. I notice that my sexual desire has decreased over recent months.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
And how long have you noticed this?
It has been more present over the past few months, though I recognise it from before too.
3. The idea of having sex appeals to me little or not at all right now.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
4. I remember having more sexual urges in the past than I do today.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
5. I could go long periods without sex without feeling the need for it.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
6. Erotic fantasies almost never come to me spontaneously anymore.
Answer : Somewhat disagree
7. …
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