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Sexual Compatibility Test: Compare Your Perspectives
63 questions·10 min·5 dimensions and a separate readiness-to-change module·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
Reviewed by Gildas Garrec, CBT practitioner
Good morning,
Each partner answers separately about desire, preferences, intimate communication and satisfaction. The report compares responses without setting a frequency or practices that a couple should adopt. A difference does not establish permanent incompatibility. Results cannot replace consent, which remains freely given and can change. Readiness to change is personal and is read separately for each partner.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix.
The test runs over 63 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book Saving Your Relationship, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Sexual Compatibility Test: Compare Your Perspectives — a 63-question self-assessment, about 10 min. Couples sexual compatibility test: compare desire, preferences, communication and satisfaction. Points for discussion, not a verdict on your relationship. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): an interpretation of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test is filled in separately by each of the two partners. There is no natural agreement in this area: what lasts comes out of adjustments, and adjusting assumes you know where you stand. Collected from each of you separately: the rhythm and the shape of desire, the correspondence between what is wished for and what takes place, the ease or the awkwardness of talking about it, and the degree of satisfaction. No norm is applied and no performance is measured. The report sets the two readings side by side and brings out the mismatches as well as the agreements neither of you suspected.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Your reading of your sexual compatibility- The way you explain your couple's sexual compatibility, before the test tells you anything about it. This section does not measure any difficulty and does not produce a level: it collects a starting reading.
- ●Desire and frequency- Measures the rhythm and nature of your sexual desire, whether spontaneous or responsive. There is no right way to feel desire — spontaneous or responsive, every rhythm is valid.
- ●Alignment of practices- Measures how well your desires align with what you actually experience in intimacy.
- ●Intimate communication- Measures how easily you talk openly about your intimacy with your partner.
- ●Mutual satisfaction- Measures your mutual fulfillment and shared wellbeing in intimate life.
- ●Readiness to Change- Measures your current readiness to evolve how you function in the relationship.
Reference frameworks and authors
- A model of women's sexual arousal (Basson R., 2002)
Why take this test?
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Each partner answers separately about desire, preferences, intimate communication and satisfaction. The report compares responses without setting a frequency or practices that a couple should adopt. A difference does not establish permanent incompatibility. Results cannot replace consent, which remains freely given and can change. Readiness to change is personal and is read separately for each partner.
The questionnaire explores 5 areas: Your reading of your sexual compatibility, Desire and frequency, Alignment of practices, Intimate communication, Mutual satisfaction. Your answers support reflection, not a diagnosis. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
Dimensions explored
These are the aspects explored by this questionnaire. Your answers help put them into perspective.
Your reading of your sexual compatibility
The way you explain your couple's sexual compatibility, before the test tells you anything about it. This section does not measure any difficulty and does not produce a level: it collects a starting reading.
Desire and frequency
Measures the rhythm and nature of your sexual desire, whether spontaneous or responsive. There is no right way to feel desire — spontaneous or responsive, every rhythm is valid.
Alignment of practices
Measures how well your desires align with what you actually experience in intimacy.
Intimate communication
Measures how easily you talk openly about your intimacy with your partner.
Mutual satisfaction
Measures your mutual fulfillment and shared wellbeing in intimate life.
Readiness to Change
Measures your current readiness to evolve how you function in the relationship.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 63 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this test measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Your reading of your sexual compatibility, Desire and frequency, Alignment of practices, Intimate communication, Mutual satisfaction. The report distinguishes the areas explored and their limits of interpretation. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
How long does this test take?
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The test contains 63 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This questionnaire draws on 5 dimensions from recognized psychological frameworks (Your reading of your sexual compatibility, Desire and frequency, Alignment of practices…). It's a self-assessment tool for reflection, not a clinical diagnostic instrument: it has not undergone formal psychometric validation (sample, reliability coefficient) and does not replace a professional assessment.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your report includes an analysis by dimension, explanations and personalised points for reflection and a separate readiness-to-change module. Scores are interpreted according to the purpose and limitations of this questionnaire.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is this test for?
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Read this test’s introduction and dimensions to check whether they match your situation. Answer from the perspective specified in the instructions.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake this test as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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The report organises your answers and offers points for reflection. You can discuss it with a professional; it does not replace their assessment or prescribe treatment.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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