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Your overall results paint a picture of a relationship or context where disrespect is present but not aggressive—primarily through a persistent lack of recognition rather than through blatant belittling or boundary violations. As a woman in your mid-thirties, you may be navigating environments where your contributions and needs are expected yet routinely taken for granted, which can feel particularly disorienting because the situation is not 'bad enough' to justify distress. The moderate impact on self-esteem suggests that this subtle disregard is already chipping away at your confidence, even as your relatively protected boundaries offer some resilience. Your stance of low readiness to change is entirely valid at this stage; it reflects a natural hesitation when the disrespect is quiet and you may still be assessing what's truly at stake. The protective factors evident in your low devalorisation and limites-bafouees scores are real strengths—they mean you are not under siege, and you maintain a baseline of mutual respect. However, the combination of moderate non-reconnaissance and moderate impact-estime hints at a slow, cumulative wear that, if unaddressed, could deepen self-doubt. The hopeful thread woven through this report is that awareness is the foundation of change: you have already begun to map the landscape, and even without immediate action, you are building a more accurate understanding of what nourishes or drains you. This report does not seek to diagnose or label; it simply reflects patterns you yourself can explore further, trusting your own experience as the ultimate guide. It may be that the lack of recognition you experience in key relationships intertwines with a habit of discounting the positive and mind-reading others’ intentions, which can quietly fuel a sense of emotional deprivation. This cross-analysis suggests that the moderate impact on your self-esteem is less about overt belittling and more about how these patterns activate an unrelenting inner standard, leaving you feeling that your efforts are never quite seen or enough. Even before you feel ready to change the relationships themselves, simply noticing this connection can be an empowering step toward restoring a sense of worth that isn’t solely dependent on external validation.
Overall result
Moderate situationSeveral moderate traits emerge in your overall profile. Some facets — being put down, lack of recognition, boundaries or self-esteem — show an intermittent presence that deserves attention without dominating your experience. This level indicates that signs of disrespect activate in certain contexts without forming a pervasive climate. Acting early, by naming what affects you, prevents these dynamics from becoming trivialised and eroding your self-esteem.
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The "Being belittled and put down" facet appears little present in your answers. You do not seem markedly exposed to comments, mockery or contemptuous remarks that would diminish your worth. This is a favorable sign: feeling respected in your exchanges supports self-esteem and relational security. This result concerns this specific relationship or context, to be read with nuance; a climate can deteriorate and then deserves to be renamed rather than endured. It does not prejudge the overall quality of your bonds.
Your answers suggest that outright belittling remarks are not a significant feature of this relationship or context right now. This is encouraging: direct attacks on your worth are largely absent. However, this low score does not mean disrespect is entirely missing—it may simply take quieter forms, such as the lack of recognition flagged elsewhere. When mockery or contemptuous comments are rare, it becomes easier to doubt whether the more subtle disregard you do experience 'counts' as disrespect. One reading, which you are free to reject, is that this absence of explicit put-downs could make it harder to name the emotional wear that comes from feeling unseen. You might find it useful to hold onto this baseline as a reference point, noticing if it shifts during stressful periods, because relational climates can gradually change without fanfare.
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The "Lack of recognition" facet shows up moderately in your answers. At times your efforts go unnoticed, your opinion is not asked for, or your needs are set aside. At this level, the feeling of not mattering settles into certain contexts without dominating the whole. Research on relational fairness shows that a prolonged lack of recognition wears down motivation and self-esteem, even in the absence of open conflict. Spotting it makes it possible to name a legitimate need for regard rather than waiting for it in silence.
A moderate level of lack of recognition emerges in your profile: at times your efforts, opinions, or mere presence seem to fade into the background. This is not about dramatic conflict but about a chronic sense of being taken for granted. When viewed alongside your low scores on belittling and boundary crossing, a picture forms of a relationship that is not openly hostile yet fails to affirm your value. This can be confusing: you are not attacked, so you may question your own dissatisfaction. The moderate impact on self-esteem, which we see in another facet, suggests this subtle erasure is already leaving traces. One hypothesis—which only you can confirm—is that you have internalized the feeling of not mattering enough, perhaps by minimizing your own contributions ('it's nothing') to avoid disappointment. Noticing this pattern creates space to ask for what you need without blame.
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This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
The "Boundaries crossed" facet appears little present in your answers. Your "no", your time, your space and your decisions seem broadly respected: you are not forced and people do not use you without your agreement. This is a favorable marker of mutual respect, associated with a sense of security and autonomy. This result concerns this specific context, to be read with nuance; respect for boundaries is checked above all in moments of disagreement. It does not prejudge the other facets of your relationships.
Your answers indicate that your boundaries—your time, space, and decisions—are generally respected. You are not pushed or coerced, and people do not routinely use you without your consent. This is a strong protective factor for your sense of autonomy. Yet it's worth noticing that boundaries are not only about imposed demands; there is also an emotional boundary, which may be less honored in this context, as suggested by the lack of recognition you experience. You might find yourself in a situation where your 'no' is accepted but your 'yes'—your contributions, your ideas—goes unnoticed. That mismatch can be disorienting. The low boundary infringement does not cancel out the subtle disregard; rather, it frames the disrespect as a quiet exclusion rather than a loud violation. Trust your own sense that something feels off even when no overt line is crossed, because emotional respect matters as much as practical limits.
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This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
The "Impact on self-esteem" facet shows up moderately in your answers. The disrespect is beginning to leave traces: doubt about your worth, a tendency to keep quiet or fade into the background, suppressed anger after certain interactions. At this level, the effect exists without invading your daily life. Cognitive-behavioral approaches stress that repeated disrespect feeds negative beliefs about oneself which, if they take hold, become hard to undo. Spotting this impact makes it possible to act before self-esteem erodes further.
The disrespect you encounter, while moderate, is beginning to leave marks on how you see yourself. Doubt about your worth, a tendency to retreat, or a flare of suppressed anger after certain interactions suggest that the lack of recognition is seeping inward. This is not a reflection of who you truly are, but rather a predictable response when a key need for validation goes chronically unmet. Cognitive-behavioral models often describe how repeated subtle slights can foster beliefs like 'my voice doesn't count,' which, once established, color future encounters even when they are neutral. Your young adulthood is a stage where professional and relational identities solidify, so these doubts can feel especially destabilising. Because overt belittling is low, you may judge yourself for being 'too sensitive,' further eroding self-trust. A more compassionate stance would be to see this as an understandable reaction to a difficult interpersonal climate—one that you can address step by step without blaming yourself.
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This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
These questions measure your readiness to change. Your score suggests you are not yet fully convinced of the need to evolve — a valid stage of the process. Awareness always comes before decision. Your report helps clarify what is at stake.
Your responses place you in a pre-contemplation stage regarding changing the situation. This is not a shortcoming; it often takes time for the subtle erosion of being undervalued to feel urgent enough to act upon. Given that overt disrespect is low and boundaries are largely intact, it's understandable that you may not yet see a pressing need to alter the dynamic. The moderate impact on self-esteem, however, could serve as a quiet nudge—a signal that the cost is tangible, even if the cause is not dramatic. One way to think about this, if it resonates, is that you are in a phase of information gathering, and this report itself is a tool for deepening self-awareness. There is no rush; change that arises from genuine insight is more sustainable than change driven by external pressure. Your task for now might be simply to observe, without judgment, the moments when the lack of recognition stings or when you hold back. That mindful noticing is itself a powerful first step.
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Your profile reveals a coherent, homogeneous pattern anchored by two interconnected moderate scores: lack of recognition and impact on self-esteem. These dimensions likely reinforce each other in a loop—efforts going unnoticed may prompt you to question your worth, and that self-doubt, in turn, can make you less likely to assert your need for recognition, thus perpetuating the feeling of being invisible. The low scores on overt belittling and boundary crossing create a peculiar tension: they confirm the relationship is not toxic in an obvious way, which may inadvertently lead you to minimize or excuse the more subtle dismissal you experience. This mismatch can be a key source of confusion. The low motivation to change sits snugly within this loop: because the disrespect is not confrontational and boundaries remain intact, there is little external pressure to act, while the internal erosion remains below the radar of conscious urgency. Viewed positively, the low scores on devalorisation and limites-bafouees are protective resources that can be leveraged; they give you a stable platform from which to slowly experiment with voicing your needs, knowing that you are less likely to face outright hostility. The correlations here suggest that a small shift in any one area—such as simply naming the lack of recognition when it happens—could begin to loosen the hold on your self-esteem and, over time, gently increase your readiness to change.
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In the coming weeks
In the long run
These are hypotheses, not conclusions. You are the one who knows whether they resonate.
It may be that you are in situations—perhaps at work, in your family, or in a partnership—where your contributions tend to go unnoticed. This can foster a sense of being undervalued, even without overt belittling. Could this lack of recognition be a thread running through some of your key relationships?
Check for yourself: Over the next week, keep a simple log. Each evening, jot down one moment when you expected acknowledgment but didn't receive it. Note the context and how you felt. After a few days, look for any recurring patterns.
One possible explanation for the moderate impact on your self-esteem is that when recognition is absent, you may gradually internalize the message that your efforts don't matter, even though you rationally know better. This isn't about a global deficit, but about a specific dynamic that chips away at confidence over time.
Check for yourself: Pay attention to your inner dialogue after you finish a task that others overlook. Do you find yourself thinking 'it wasn't that important anyway' or 'I shouldn't need praise'? If so, track how often that self-dismissal surfaces. Naming it can reduce its power.
Given that you are not yet considering changes in these relationships, it could be that the situation feels tolerable, or that the link between lack of recognition and your lowered self-esteem isn't fully clear to you right now. That's a common and understandable place to be, and simply noticing this disconnect is valuable.
Check for yourself: For a day, imagine a scenario where people consistently acknowledge the specific things you do well. Notice any shift in your energy or mood as you visualize this. Ask yourself: does life feel appreciably lighter? This experiment can clarify whether the current dynamic is heavier than you realized.
10 clinical reading frameworks are applied to your profile below.
Recognised clinical frameworks applied to your profile, as additional perspectives to weigh.
Cognitive pattern — Mind Reading
You may be interpreting others' actions as indicating a lack of appreciation, even without direct proof. This can create a filter where neutral behaviors seem like slights. Recognizing this pattern is a first step toward seeing the full picture.
Cognitive pattern — Discounting the Positive
When recognition does occur, you might dismiss it as unimportant or insincere. This mental habit can amplify the feeling of being undervalued. Noticing and validating positive moments can gradually rebalance this perception.
Cognitive pattern — Personalization
There's a tendency to take events personally, as if others' inattention specifically targets you. This can feel isolating, but often others' actions are not about you. Checking assumptions with trusted individuals can help you differentiate.
Early schema — Unrelenting Standards
If you hold very high standards for how you should be recognized, the moderate lack of acknowledgment can feel like a significant failure. This schema may drive a constant push for validation, leaving you exhausted. Adjusting expectations to more realistic levels may reduce this strain.
Early schema — Defectiveness / Shame
The impact on your self-esteem suggests that feeling unacknowledged might activate a deep-seated belief that you are somehow flawed. This belief can be challenged by noting evidence of your worth that exists independently of others' recognition.
Early schema — Emotional Deprivation
A sense that others do not truly see or understand you can mirror a core feeling of emotional neglect. Exploring whether this pattern appears in different relationships may help you address it directly, perhaps by communicating your needs more clearly.
Cognitive distortions — Sources: Beck (1976) ; Burns (1980)
Young schemas — Sources: Young, Klosko & Weishaar (2003) ; Young (1990)
Recognised models for this domain, applied to your profile as hypotheses to weigh — not a diagnosis.
Cross-cutting frameworks
Ellis’s ABC Model
Your moderate lack of recognition score, combined with a tangible impact on your self-esteem, suggests that certain beliefs about what it means when you aren't acknowledged may be fueling distress. It may be that you hold a core idea like 'If people don't praise me, I'm not worth much,' which Ellis' model would call an irrational belief. The low readiness to change indicates you might not yet see these beliefs as modifiable, but exploring them could help you separate events from your emotional response.
Sources: Ellis (1962) ; Ellis & Harper (1975)
Young’s Early Maladaptive Schemas
The interplay of feeling insufficiently recognized and a moderate impact on self-esteem often points to an underlying schema, such as Defectiveness or Unrelenting Standards. It may be that you carry an early-developed sense that your worth depends on external validation, making ordinary moments of neglect feel like confirmation of inadequacy. Since your experience of being belittled is low, this might be more about your internal filter than others' actions, a pattern that can be recognized and softened.
Sources: Young, Klosko & Weishaar (2003) ; Young (1990)
Self-efficacy
Your low readiness to change, at the pre-contemplation stage, may reflect a diminished sense of self-efficacy—a belief that you cannot effectively alter the situations where you feel unrecognized. The moderate erosion of self-esteem can chip away at the confidence that you can speak up or reset expectations. Bandura's work reminds us that self-efficacy is built through small, achievable actions, so starting with low-risk situations could gradually restore your sense of agency.
Sources: Bandura (1997) ; Bandura (1977)
Cognitive distortions
Even though you report relatively low direct belittling, the moderate lack of recognition suggests a possible cognitive filter that highlights the times you aren't appreciated while minimizing the times you are. This mental filter or discounting the positive can sustain a persistent feeling of being undervalued, which in turn weighs on your self-esteem. Noticing this bias in daily moments could help you balance your perception and reduce the emotional impact.
Sources: Beck (1976) ; Burns (1980)
These frameworks do not constitute a medical diagnosis.
Looking at your profile as a whole, the quiet thread that seems to weave through everything else is the moderate lack of recognition you experience. Unlike being openly put down or having your boundaries trampled, which are clearly low here, this lack of recognition doesn't shout. It whispers. It’s the missing ‘thank you,’ the assumption that you’ll handle things, the feeling that your contributions seep into the background like they’re expected rather than valued. And precisely because it’s subtle, it’s disorienting. The other low scores almost work as a tranquilizer—they assure you that nothing is terribly wrong. Your boundaries hold, you’re not being attacked, so why rock the boat? This is a very human logic: when the cost of complaint feels higher than the cost of silence, we stay still. And that stillness, in turn, cradles the low readiness to change. It makes perfect sense that you’re in a contemplative space, weighing whether this is even ‘bad enough’ to act on. The internal tension here is something I’d describe as a slow leak rather than a burst pipe. On one hand, you have a remarkable resilience: low belittling and strong boundaries tell me you can spot obvious disrespect and you don’t let it consume you. You’re not under siege. Yet on the other hand, the moderate impact on your self-esteem is the tell-tale drip. It hints that your confidence is being eroded not by a tidal wave of cruelty, but by a steady, ambient absence of affirmation. This makes it both easier and harder. Easier because you can function, harder because you might doubt your own perception—is it even real if it’s so quiet? The cost, then, might be a gradual dimming of your inner voice that says, ‘What I do matters.’ How might this balance have come to be? Often, such an equilibrium grows from environments that reward self-effacement. Perhaps you learned early that making yourself indispensable without demanding the spotlight kept things harmonious, or you’ve worked in contexts where recognition flows to louder, more visible efforts while your steady reliability is simply taken as a given. This pattern might have served you well by minimizing conflict and letting you focus on getting things done, but it’s like a protective shell that has slowly become a bit heavy. The low boundaries score suggests you do draw a line when someone crosses it overtly, so the shell isn’t brittle; it’s more that no one is pushing hard enough to make the line visible. And so you’ve adapted, and the adaptation has protected you, but also left you with a hunger for something you haven’t felt entitled to name. There is a deeply underestimated resource in your profile. The fact that your boundaries are intact and that belittling feels low means you hold a core sense of personal dignity. You haven’t internalized the lack of recognition as a statement about your worth. That’s a profound asset. It means the wear-and-tear is more like weather than climate—you’ve felt it, but it hasn’t reshaped your whole landscape. This boundary-keeping ability is a skill you could use differently if you chose. Right now, it’s applied to guarding against overt attacks; but think of it as a muscle you can also flex to protect something quieter—your need for acknowledgment. If something were to shift first, it might not look like a grand confrontation. It could be a tiny flicker of annoyance that surprises you—a moment where someone assumes you’ll stay late or clean up, and instead of feeling neutral, you feel a pang of ‘Wait, I matter too.’ That irritation is not a flaw; it’s your self-esteem sending up a flare. The first sign of movement would be you noticing that feeling and not immediately dismissing it because ‘it’s not a big deal.’ From there, the readiness to change could budge from pre-contemplation to a gentle curiosity: ‘What if I asked for a small acknowledgment and the world didn’t end?’ Your profile doesn’t call for overhaul; it invites experimentation with tiny acts of self-advocacy, warmed by the knowledge that your worth is already there, waiting to be seen.
A score is not lived as a number but as a scene. See if you recognise yours — or set it aside.
Being belittled and put down
You're sitting in a team meeting, and a colleague jokingly says, 'Well, that's one way to approach it, I guess,' after you share an idea. The room chuckles lightly, and you smile along, feeling a faint, fleeting twinge in your chest. You might wonder for a split second if that was a dig, but then you let it go—after all, it wasn't openly mean. The conversation moves on, and you tell yourself it was just a poor choice of words. Later, at lunch, you replay the moment briefly, then dismiss it as you scroll through your phone. It's so subtle you can't quite name it, and the day continues uneventfully.
To try: This week, when you notice that faint twinge, pause and take one slow breath. Without needing to label it, just ask yourself silently, 'What would I have needed to hear instead?' Don't force an answer; let the question drift away if nothing comes.
Lack of recognition
You've spent the last week organizing a family gathering—ordering food, coordinating schedules, handling last-minute cancellations—and the event goes smoothly. As everyone chats happily, no one mentions your effort; they simply expect the meal to appear, the table to be set. You hear a relative praised for bringing a store-bought dessert, and a quiet thought crosses your mind: 'What about everything else?' You sit down with your plate, feeling a heaviness in your shoulders, a tiredness that isn't just physical. You catch yourself wondering if it's even worth bringing up, because it seems so ordinary, so normal that these things just get done by someone.
To try: At the end of a day, take three minutes with a notebook. Jot down three things you did that mattered—even if no one noticed, even small ones. After each, put a small star next to it. Let that be your own quiet acknowledgment.
Boundaries crossed
A neighbor knocks on your door during your quiet evening hour, asking to borrow something you need yourself the next morning. You hesitate for a moment, your hand still on the doorframe, a slight tension in your jaw. You explain you can't this time, and they nod easily, saying 'No problem, maybe another time.' The interaction ends, and you close the door, noticing the tension release. You go back to your chair, maybe a little surprised at how simple that was. The boundary was touched but didn't crumble; there's a faint sense of relief mixed with a trace of guilt that ebbs away as you pick up your book.
To try: In a low-stakes moment, practice a complete sentence: 'I can't do that, but I can [offer a small alternative].' Say it out loud to yourself once, just to feel the words in your mouth. Notice how your body responds, without judgment.
Impact on self-esteem
After a week where your contributions at work were consistently overlooked—ideas echoed later by others without credit, your name left off an email thread—you find yourself staring at your reflection in the bathroom mirror one evening. There's a hollow sensation in your stomach, like a small, persistent ache. A thought surfaces: 'Maybe I don't really bring anything special.' You brush your teeth, and the thought lingers, quiet but heavy. The next morning, you hesitate before speaking up in a chat, second-guessing whether your point is worth voicing. You end up staying silent, and the day feels a little grayer.
To try: Place your hand gently over your heart and say to yourself, 'This is hard, and I'm doing my best.' Let the words sink in for three slow breaths. No need to believe them fully—just allow them to land.
Readiness to Change
You're having coffee with a close friend who, after listening to a story about another overlooked effort, says softly, 'You know, you deserve more acknowledgment for all you do.' You stir your drink, looking at the spoon rather than their face, and reply, 'It's really not a big deal; everyone's busy.' A small part of you bristles, wanting to defend the normalcy of it all. You shift the topic to their weekend plans, and the conversation lightens. That night, you might notice a faint restlessness before sleep, a sense that something was left unsaid, but it's easier to wrap yourself in the familiar quilt of 'this is just how things are.'
To try: For one week, simply observe—without any pressure to act—how often you use phrases like 'it's fine' or 'no big deal' when something doesn't sit right. Make a tiny mental note each time, like a curious researcher watching clouds pass. No conclusions needed.
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This questionnaire captures your own perception at a single moment in time, which might be colored by recent events, your mood, or a temporary dip in confidence. It doesn’t measure the objective reality of how others treat you, nor does it establish cause—your self-esteem could be influenced by factors entirely unrelated to recognition. The tool cannot detect whether the lack of recognition is consistent across all areas of life or limited to one particular relationship or setting. Social desirability might also have played a role: you might have downplayed or exaggerated certain answers, consciously or not, because of how you think you 'should' feel. Furthermore, these results can’t tease apart whether the impact on self-esteem leads to a heightened sensitivity to disregard, or the disregard causes the impact—it’s a loop, not a line. Finally, the test doesn’t account for cultural contexts where modesty and not seeking praise are valued, which could make the same scores mean something entirely different.
You’re in a fundamentally respectful environment with an ambition gap
It’s possible that the lack of recognition you feel isn’t a sign of being disrespected, but a reflection of your own rising standards for what you deserve. You might be surrounded by people who genuinely appreciate you but express it in ways you don’t register, or who assume that because you’re capable, you don’t need frequent feedback. As you grow, your need for explicit acknowledgment may have increased, turning an otherwise healthy dynamic into a perceived void. The impact on self-esteem could then stem from that inner shift—an ambition to be seen more fully—rather than an external failure. This reading suggests the situation is less about them and more about you evolving into a new chapter where you’re ready to claim more visibility.
The moderate impact reflects a separate, long-standing self-esteem challenge
Your moderate impact on self-esteem might not be born from the lack of recognition at all. Instead, you could be carrying a baseline sensitivity about your worth that predates the current context, and the absence of acknowledgment simply pricks an old wound. From this angle, the recognition dimension acts like a spotlight that reveals a pre-existing bruise, not its cause. Your strong boundaries and low belittling scores confirm that no one is actively hurting you; the ache might be something you’ve carried for a while, which can make any hint of being overlooked feel heavier than it would for someone else.
Your low readiness to change is a functional, wise pause, not a deficit
Being at a pre-contemplation stage doesn’t mean you’re stuck—it could be a strategic holding pattern. You might be subconsciously gathering evidence, waiting to see if the pattern holds, or protecting yourself from the exhaustion of tackling something that, right now, feels manageable. Perhaps you’ve learned that acting prematurely in the past led to more pain, so you’ve wisely chosen to observe first. This stance also spares you from potential backlash in an environment where explicit requests for recognition might be seen as needy. The readiness score is simply a snapshot of a deliberate, adaptive, and patient approach.
The lack of recognition is a side effect of a role you’ve willingly accepted
You might occupy a role—at work, in a family, in a friendship—that comes with the unspoken clause of being the reliable, invisible backbone. People don’t belittle you or cross your boundaries because they respect the function you serve, but they also forget to thank the person behind it. You could have chosen this role at some point because it aligned with your values of service or because the alternative (more attention, more scrutiny) felt uncomfortable. In that light, the moderate impact is the natural friction of that bargain: you get peace and a kind of respect, but you pay with a quiet emotional tax.
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7-day observation journal
Each day, spot one situation where “Lack of recognition” showed up. Note the automatic thought, the emotion (0–100) and what you did. Then write one more balanced, alternative reading. After 7 days, re-read your notes: the recurring patterns become visible — the first step to change them.
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1. I am regularly put down or criticised, in private or in front of others.
Answer : Disagree
You answered "Disagree". Can you tell me more about when this comes up for you?
It mainly shows up in situations that matter to me, when I feel under pressure or emotionally involved.
2. My words or ideas are made fun of.
Answer : Disagree
And how long have you noticed this?
It has been more present over the past few months, though I recognise it from before too.
3. In my relationships, I feel respected and valued.
Answer : Agree
4. Comments are made that make me feel inferior or incompetent.
Answer : Disagree
5. What I do is compared unfavourably to what others do.
Answer : Disagree
6. My achievements are minimised or credited to something other than me.
Answer : Disagree
7. …
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