Codependency Test — Are You Too Devoted? What It Measures and How to Read Your Score

Codependency is characterised by an excessive need to care for others at the expense of oneself. This 30-question test explores four essential dimensions: self-sacrifice, control, low self-esteem and blurred boundaries. The results will help you understand how these patterns shape your relationships and your personal well-being. Discover concrete ways to find a healthy balance between giving of yourself and respecting your own needs.

In the article that follows, I explore emotional dependency and the need for the other. If you recognise yourself in this theme, I designed an emotional dependency test that helps you take stock of your relationship to others and your emotional autonomy. It comes with a guide to extend your reflection beyond the results.

This "caring at the expense of yourself" can be measured: the codependency test.

What the test measures

• A tendency to sacrifice yourself for others, to ignore your own needs and to put others' well-being before your own.
• A need to control situations and people, often under the cover of helping or being kind.
• A sense of lacking personal worth, of depending on others' validation to feel worthy.
• Difficulty setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, and telling your emotions apart from other people's.

How to interpret your score

The result reads as an intensity, not a diagnosis:

• Low codependency: You show few signs of codependency. Your relationships are broadly balanced and respectful of your needs.
• Moderate codependency: Some codependent tendencies are present and show up mainly in your closest relationships.
• High codependency: Your level of codependency significantly affects the quality of your relationships and your personal well-being.
• Very high codependency: Codependency dominates your relationships and your daily life. You need support in order to regain your balance.

What your full report contains

The detailed PDF report (from EUR 4.99) includes:

• Introduction: This report analyses your codependent tendencies across four fundamental dimensions. Understanding these patterns is the first step towards more balanced relationships.
• Overall Score: Your overall score reflects the intensity of your codependent patterns. A high score indicates that these patterns significantly influence your relationships.
• Dimension-by-Dimension Analysis: Each dimension reveals a specific aspect of codependency. The detailed analysis lets you identify the patterns most active in your life.
• Recommendations: The following recommendations are personalised according to your results. They aim to help you build healthier, more balanced relationships.
• Resources: Recommended reading: 'Codependent No More' by Melody Beattie, 'The 5 Wounds That Prevent You From Being Yourself' by Lise Bourbeau. CoDA (Codependents Anonymous) groups are present in many cities.

The first 5 questions are free; the full, personalised report (your precise score, your profile by dimension, your recommendations) is paid.

When to take this test

• You recognise yourself in codependency, relationships, self-sacrifice and want to see things clearly.
• You want a structured reading rather than a vague impression.
• You are looking for an objective starting point before speaking to a professional if needed.

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FAQ

How long does the test take? 60 questions, around 15 min. The test has 60 questions. Does the test provide a diagnosis? No. It measures an intensity and provides reference points; only a professional can make a diagnosis. Are my answers confidential? Yes: the test is 100% anonymous and the report is delivered directly to you.

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