Emotional Wounds in the Couple Test
Explore the emotional traces of the past that still influence your relationship: reactivations, projections, disproportionate reactions, and the capacity to repair
Detailed report (interpreted score, radar chart, clinical frameworks, action plan) available after the test, for €2.99.
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Your report includes
- ✓Overall score with interpretation
- ✓Analysis of each dimension
- ✓Detailed radar chart
- ✓Personalized recommendations
- ✓Resources and exercises
- ✓Our questions, your answers
- ✓PDF book included : « The Practical CBT Guide »
- ✓Option to leave a review
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The Emotional Wounds in the Couple is a 64-question self-assessment measuring 5 key dimensions. Some past wounds — from childhood, previous relationships, or the current one — continue to influence our reactions, our expectations, our way of being in a relationship. This test explores how you experience these reactivations, without looking for anyone to blame. After completing it you get an instant overview, then a detailed PDF report (€2.99): scores per dimension, a radar chart and a personalized action plan. This tool is for self-knowledge and does not replace a professional consultation.
About this test
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It is not always easy to untangle what comes from the past and what belongs to the present. An old wound can be reactivated by a seemingly trivial situation, generating a reaction that seems excessive, or producing a distance that is hard to explain. This test is interested in these traces — their presence, their strength, their impact on the relationship — and your capacity to repair with your partner after difficult moments. No one to blame. Wounds are described by what they have left in you — not by what the other person did.
Dimensions assessed
- ●Reactivation of past wounds- Painful past experiences — from childhood, previous relationships, or the current relationship — can be reactivated in the couple, often without the person being aware of it.
- ●Projection onto the partner- When a wound is active, we sometimes attribute to the other person intentions or behaviours that the situation does not fully explain.
- ●Disproportionate reactions- A reactivated wound can generate an emotional reaction that seems out of proportion with the triggering situation.
- ●Capacity to repair- After difficult moments, the capacity to find each other again, to acknowledge what happened, and to rebuild connection is central in any relationship.
- ●Readiness to act- Measures your current readiness to acknowledge what you are experiencing and allow your situation to evolve.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Emotional Wounds in the Couple specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Reactivation of past wounds, Projection onto the partner, Disproportionate reactions, Capacity to repair, Readiness to act. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 15 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Emotional Wounds in the Couple sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
The actual questions are not shown here: you discover them when you start the test.
How does it work?
Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 15 min.
See your preview
Once you finish, you immediately see a preview of your overall score and profile by dimension — no registration required.
Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Emotional Wounds in the Couple measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Reactivation of past wounds, Projection onto the partner, Disproportionate reactions, Capacity to repair, Readiness to act. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Emotional Wounds in the Couple take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 15 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report (18 pages) with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations is available for €2.99.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Reactivation of past wounds, Projection onto the partner, Disproportionate reactions...) using validated assessment scales. However, it is a self-assessment tool and does not replace a professional clinical diagnosis.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Emotional Wounds in the Couple report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Emotional Wounds in the Couple for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional. It is not a clinical diagnostic tool and does not replace a specialist consultation.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Emotional Wounds in the Couple as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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Test developed by Psychologie et Sérénité. Does not replace a professional consultation.