Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test

This test covers the future, plans, affection, withdrawal, attachment, desire, arousal, longing, pleasure, dialogue, the relationship, time, curiosity, hope and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example The future If you have trouble picturing a future with your partner. If you can still see yourself with your partner in five years. Plans If the future of your relationship inspires more worry in you than enthusiasm. If you have shared plans that excite you. Affection If what you feel for your partner feels more like affection or friendship than love. If your partner's gestures of affection still touch you. Withdrawal If you often feel indifferent or emotionally distant toward your partner. If you still feel emotionally close to your partner. Attachment If sometimes you feel as though your feelings for your partner have disappeared without your knowing why. If you would find it hard to imagine your life without your partner. Desire If your desire for your partner has faded, both physically and emotionally. If your partner still attracts you. Arousal If the need for physical contact with your partner has faded. If you still feel the urge to be physically close to your partner. Longing If you have a hard time remembering what you felt at the beginning of your relationship. If the idea of a week without seeing your partner makes you miss them. Pleasure If your relationship lacks lightness, playfulness, or spontaneity. If you can still make each other laugh or surprise each other. Dialogue If your conversations are often limited to logistics or day-to-day matters. If you still want to talk to them, listen to them, learn what they are thinking. The relationship If you feel as though you have become housemates rather than a couple. If you still have a closeness that goes beyond simply living together. Time If moments that truly belong to you, outside of daily logistics, have become rare. If you still have evenings or moments that remind you why you are together. Curiosity If routine has largely replaced what once made your relationship singular. If you still positively surprise each other from time to time. Hope If the routine in your relationship weighs on you to the point that you have trouble seeing what still connects you. If beneath the routine, there is still something alive between you. Readiness to change If what you just described has a real impact on your life. If you want to evolve the way you function.