The need to be looked at

This interactive test covers what others think, recognition, speaking up, mood, the body, storytelling, confidence, independence, spending, appearance, desire, attachment, self-esteem and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example What others think Whether the need to be seen and recognized weighs on most of your everyday choices. Whether you can get through a whole evening without being noticed, and it doesn't bother you. Recognition Whether, when you post a photo, you watch for reactions and disappointment sets in if there are few. Whether you handle the logistics of a party without needing to be in the photo. Speaking up Whether, when you arrive in a group, you throw out a line that turns heads. Whether, at a party, you'd rather hold the corner of the table than the middle of the room. Mood Whether your mood flips in an instant and it shows on your face. Whether, even when news shakes you, your face stays composed. The body Whether, when you talk, your hands move and your voice rises to drive home each sentence. Whether, even when news stirs you, your tone stays even. Storytelling Whether, when you tell a mishap over dinner, you embellish it to make it more striking. Whether you tell about your days in order, one fact after another. Confidence Whether, when someone states an idea in a confident tone, you find it hard to challenge. Whether, even when the whole table thinks the opposite, you hold on to your conviction. Independence Whether, when the whole group votes one way, you vote the same way, even against your own idea. Whether, for an important choice, you decide first and then talk about it with others. Spending Whether a "last day" offer makes you take out your bank card. Whether you leave a shop with something a friend recommended to you on the spot. Appearance Whether you choose a jacket or a hairstyle that will make people turn around. Whether, before a date, you take care of your appearance to make an impression. Desire Whether you feel good in a relationship on the day you sense you're desired. Whether, in your own eyes, your worth stays the same, whether people like you or not. Attachment Whether, after a brief meeting, you introduce someone as a very close friend. Whether you can tell who is an acquaintance and who is a long-standing friend. Self-esteem Whether, when no one writes to you all day, something goes dim inside you. Whether your worth stands on its own, regardless of how others see you. Readiness to change Whether what you've just described weighs on your life and your relationships. Whether you want to change the way you function day to day.