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Hello Emma,
On the terrain of connection with others, what follows describes relational dynamics — ways of relating that can evolve, not verdicts. Your profile shows moderate manifestations. Some dimensions deserve attention without being alarming: they describe real but contained difficulties that do not yet occupy the center of your functioning. The moderate level is precisely the one where observation is most useful, because it can evolve in either direction depending on what is happening in your life. Identifying the contexts and moments where these dimensions intensify — fatigue, conflict, overload, isolation — gives you concrete levers to act early. Talking about it with a trusted person or a professional, even without urgency, can help clarify what is at play and avoid a worsening through accumulation.
Overall result
Moderate jealousyYour answers suggest a moderate level of jealousy: present and perceptible, but still within limits that allow relative management. Clinically, this profile indicates that certain specific situations — your partner's interactions with third parties perceived as attractive, unexplained absences, ambiguities on social networks — activate emotional and behavioral jealousy responses that occasionally exceed the comfort threshold. Without specific work, this level tends to fluctuate according to life events and can intensify during periods of stress or relational instability. Early attention to these mechanisms is a wise psychological investment.
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
Your answers suggest a low level of relational insecurity, which provides a solid foundation for balanced emotional bonds. Clinically, this indicates that your attachment system functions in a secure way: you do not tend to interpret your partner's behaviors as implicit threats, and your self-esteem does not depend excessively on external validation. This inner stability fosters open communication, reduces defensive behaviors, and allows you to move through moments of relational tension without lasting destabilization. It is a valuable psychological resource to recognize and actively cultivate.
Your answers do not signal any particular difficulty on insecurity. This dimension does not appear as a current area of difficulty in your profile. You seem to have functional resources in this area, which act as a protective factor: they cushion everyday tensions and can compensate, at least in part, for other dimensions where the margin is narrower. These resources are not fixed once and for all; identifying and naming them helps you mobilize them more consciously when the context hardens. A low score reflects a snapshot of your functioning at the moment of the test, not a permanent guarantee — so it remains useful to treat it as a benchmark rather than as a settled given. If you observe fluctuations over time, this can inform you about the contexts where this dimension becomes more sensitive — stress, life transitions, specific relationships, periods of fatigue or overload — and give you a head start to respond early.
Recommendations
This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
Your answers suggest occasional checking behaviors — looking at the phone, repeated questioning, checking location — that reflect situational mistrust. Clinically, these behaviors follow a logic of short-term anxiety reduction: checking provides immediate relief but paradoxically reinforces the anxiety loop in the long run by sustaining the idea that monitoring is necessary for security. This mechanism is well documented in recognized approaches such as CBT. It is important to recognize it early, because without awareness these behaviors tend to intensify gradually under the effect of negative reinforcement.
Your answers indicate present but contained manifestations on surveillance. The moderate level typically reflects activation at times, often linked to identifiable triggers (stressful situations, relational conflicts, periods of fatigue or isolation). At this stage, the dimension is not dominant in your functioning, but it deserves observation: the main risk of the moderate level is that it worsens by accumulation. In practical terms, watching the frequency rather than the intensity of an isolated episode gives a truer picture of the trend: it is repetition, more than occasional strength, that tips the moderate toward the marked. Keeping a regular check-in (brief journal, conversation with a trusted person) can help anticipate. Identifying two or three recurring triggers and preparing a simple response in advance — a break, a call, a soothing activity — reduces the likelihood of the dimension settling in. If other dimensions evolve in parallel, this one can become more salient through cumulative effect; and if these manifestations gain ground despite your efforts, talking about it early with a professional is in no way disproportionate — it is often at this stage that support is most effective and shortest.
Recommendations
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
Your answers suggest that social comparison is not a significant driver of your jealousy. Clinically, this indicates that your self-esteem does not rest primarily on a relative positioning against others, which is an indicator of identity stability. You appear to have integrated a sufficiently solid sense of personal worth not to perceive your partner's interactions with others as threats to your place in the relationship. This self-security reduces vulnerability to social comparisons amplified by contemporary digital environments, and contributes to a jealousy that is more regulated and less reactive to external stimuli.
On social comparison, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
This tendency is present in you — here is what it sheds light on.
Your answers suggest jealousy-related emotional reactions that are sometimes intense but that you generally manage to contain without them systematically escalating. Clinically, this profile corresponds to functional but still improvable emotional regulation: jealousy emotions occasionally exceed the comfort threshold and require conscious effort to be managed. This phenomenon may be linked to cognitive patterns of interpreting situations — a tendency to catastrophize or personalize — that amplify the initial emotional intensity. Working on these amplification mechanisms represents a concrete and accessible lever for improvement.
On emotional reactions, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
This tendency is discreet in you — here is what it tells about you.
These questions measure your readiness to change. Your score suggests you are not yet fully convinced of the need to evolve — a valid stage of the process. Awareness always comes before decision. Your report helps clarify what is at stake.
On readiness to change, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).
Recommendations
Your profile shows clear relief without several dimensions rising together: Surveillance stands out, 25 points above Social Comparison, while the others remain more measured. This reads differently from a picture where several dimensions reinforce one another: here, what is at play seems concentrated rather than diffuse. That is often more tractable — an identified point is easier to work on than a tangled whole — provided it is not treated in isolation: even concentrated, it rests on the rest of how you function.
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7-day observation journal
Each day, spot one situation where “Surveillance” showed up. Note the automatic thought, the emotion (0–100) and what you did. Then write one more balanced, alternative reading. After 7 days, re-read your notes: the recurring patterns become visible — the first step to change them.
Support resources
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This report is generated by artificial intelligence from your answers only, structured around recognised clinical models (attachment theory, CBT, Young’s schemas…) cited within the report. No health professional is involved in writing it. It is a self-knowledge tool, not a diagnosis: the analyses are avenues for understanding to weigh against your own experience, and do not replace the assessment of a health professional.
1. I'm afraid my partner will find someone better than me.
Answer : Rarely
You answered "Rarely". Can you tell me more about when this comes up for you?
It mainly shows up in situations that matter to me, when I feel under pressure or emotionally involved.
2. I lose my composure when I feel jealous.
Answer : Sometimes
And how long have you noticed this?
It has been more present over the past few months, though I recognise it from before too.
3. When my partner comes home late without warning, I immediately imagine the worst.
Answer : Sometimes
4. When my partner says they find a celebrity very attractive, it bothers me.
Answer : Rarely
5. I feel threatened by the attention my partner gives to others.
Answer : Rarely
6. When jealousy rises in the middle of an evening out, I struggle to hide it.
Answer : Sometimes
7. …
The next questions (7, 8…) continue in your test. This sample only shows the beginning — the full test has 64 questions, and every answer refines your report.
This psychological test is a self-assessment tool for informational and educational purposes. It does not constitute: • A medical or psychological diagnosis • A substitute for professional consultation • Medical or therapeutic advice The results of this test are based on your self-reported responses and should be interpreted with caution. They provide a general indication and do not replace the expertise of a qualified mental health professional. If you are experiencing significant psychological distress, we strongly encourage you to consult a psychologist, psychiatrist, or physician. In case of emergency: • Emergency services: your local emergency number • Find a helpline in your country: findahelpline.com (free, international directory) • Befrienders Worldwide: befrienders.org
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