Why Men Lie: Understanding Deception in Relationships — Intuition, Trauma, and Sociological Context

Analyse TCC du mensonge masculin : peur du conflit, attachement évitant, conditionnement social, restauration de la véracité dans le couple.

You sense he's lying, but you doubt your own intuition — and you no longer know if it's you who's "crazy" or him who's hiding something? This book doesn't set out to accuse all men in one sweep: across four parts, it examines what the research actually says about lying in relationships, the sociological context of today's dating landscape (including the "monkey branching" phenomenon), and, above all, four distinct mechanisms behind male lying — conflict avoidance, image protection, alexithymia (the inability to identify and name one's own emotions), and active concealment. The link with avoidant attachment is explored in depth, along with how your own history has calibrated your "radar" for lies. Grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and enriched with twelve clinical case studies and fifteen practical exercises, this guide closes with a four-step dialogue protocol for restoring truth in your relationship — without becoming a detective, and without sacrificing your mental health.