Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test
Explore how the arrival of a child has transformed your intimacy: fatigue, available time, body image, and reconnection
Detailed report (interpreted score, radar chart, clinical frameworks, action plan) available after the test, for €2.99.
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- ✓Overall score with interpretation
- ✓Analysis of each dimension
- ✓Detailed radar chart
- ✓Personalized recommendations
- ✓Resources and exercises
- ✓Our questions, your answers
- ✓PDF book included : « The Practical CBT Guide »
- ✓Option to leave a review
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The Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test is a 64-question self-assessment measuring 5 key dimensions. A child changes everything — including how two partners find each other, or struggle to. This test explores four dimensions of intimacy after becoming parents, without any expected timeline or norm for 'resuming'. After completing it you get an instant overview, then a detailed PDF report (€2.99): scores per dimension, a radar chart and a personalized action plan. This tool is for self-knowledge and does not replace a professional consultation.
About this test
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Having a child profoundly transforms couple life, and intimacy is no exception. Not just sexuality — but tenderness, the gaze, the act of finding each other again as partners beyond the parenting role. This test explores four dimensions: how fatigue impacts intimacy, the time you have available for your couple, your relationship to your body after pregnancy or birth, and your ability to reconnect. No timeline for 'getting back to normal'. No norm about what your intimacy should look like. A space to see where you are, without judgment.
Dimensions assessed
- ●Impact of fatigue- Fatigue is often the first reason cited for growing apart after having a child. It is real, legitimate, and worth naming.
- ●Available time for the couple- Finding time to be two people — not just parents — has become difficult. This dimension explores how you experience this space (or its absence).
- ●Relationship to your body after birth- The body may have changed, not always in the way you hoped. This changed relationship to your body has a real impact on intimacy.
- ●Reconnection- Finding each other again as partners, not just as parents. Reconnection can be difficult to initiate — and yet it is still possible.
- ●Readiness to act- Measures your current readiness to acknowledge what you are experiencing and allow your situation to evolve.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Impact of fatigue, Available time for the couple, Relationship to your body after birth, Reconnection, Readiness to act. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 15 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
The actual questions are not shown here: you discover them when you start the test.
How does it work?
Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 15 min.
See your preview
Once you finish, you immediately see a preview of your overall score and profile by dimension — no registration required.
Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Impact of fatigue, Available time for the couple, Relationship to your body after birth, Reconnection, Readiness to act. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 15 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report (18 pages) with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations is available for €2.99.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Impact of fatigue, Available time for the couple, Relationship to your body after birth...) using validated assessment scales. However, it is a self-assessment tool and does not replace a professional clinical diagnosis.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional. It is not a clinical diagnostic tool and does not replace a specialist consultation.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Has Having a Child Hurt Our Intimacy? — Couple Test as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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Test developed by Psychologie et Sérénité. Does not replace a professional consultation.