Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships?
Identify the love scenarios you replay without meaning to
Self-assessment of repetition patterns in love: recurring partner choice, old roots, fixed role and the automatic nature of the cycle.
It has 64 questions and takes about 15 min.
The detailed report places your overall score, with an interpretation of what it reveals, then analyzes each of the 5 dimensions of the test, through 8 clinical reading frameworks (attachment, schemas, cognitive…) and presents them on a radar chart. It closes with personalized recommendations, resources and exercises to help you move forward, along with the detail of your answers to each question.
Detailed report available after the test, for €2.99.
If any conclusion raises questions, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: we will reply within 48 hours. You can click the following link to see an example report. To start the test, click HERE.
We would also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove, our complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? — a 64-question self-assessment, about 15 min. Self-assessment of repetition patterns in love: recurring partner choice, old roots, fixed role and the automatic nature of the cycle. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report (€2.99): your score on each of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, 8 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better, not to replace a professional consultation.
About this test
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Many people feel they "always end up in the same kind of relationship" without understanding why. This test explores five dimensions of relationship repetition: the recurrence of your partner choice, how rooted your patterns are in your history, the role you systematically occupy, and the automatic, unconscious nature of the cycle. The goal is not to blame you, but to make visible what is replaying, the first condition for being able to change it.
Dimensions assessed
- ●Recurring Partner Choice- Tendency to be drawn to the same kind of profile, often unavailable or problematic
- ●Old Roots- A sense of replaying familiar dynamics from your history in love
- ●Fixed Role- Tendency to always occupy the same role (rescuer, submissive, over-giver, controlling...)
- ●Unconscious Cycle- Automatic, repeated nature of the cycle, despite awareness or harm
- ●Readiness to Change- Measures your current readiness to acknowledge the impact of this topic on your life and engage in a process of growth.
Why take this test?
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Our romantic and interpersonal relationships are deeply influenced by our attachment style and relational patterns. Understanding these mechanisms helps break repetitive cycles, improve communication, and build more fulfilling connections.
The Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Recurring Partner Choice, Old Roots, Fixed Role, Unconscious Cycle, Readiness to Change. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 15 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
At the start of a relationship
Your first instincts when attracted: opening up fast or holding back, idealizing or doubting, chasing or running away.
In conflict
How you handle disagreement: avoiding, exploding, shutting down, seeking immediate reconciliation, or ruminating for days.
When the other person pulls away
Your reactions to absence, silence, distance: anxiety, control, withdrawal, apparent indifference, constant need for reassurance.
In emotional intimacy
Ability to say what you feel, to receive what the other feels, to welcome vulnerability without fleeing or judging it.
The actual questions are not shown here: you discover them when you start the test.
How does it work?
Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 15 min.
Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay €2.99 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Recurring Partner Choice, Old Roots, Fixed Role, Unconscious Cycle, Readiness to Change. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 15 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report (18 pages) with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations is available for €2.99.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Recurring Partner Choice, Old Roots, Fixed Role...) using validated assessment scales. However, it is a self-assessment tool and does not replace a professional clinical diagnosis.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional. It is not a clinical diagnostic tool and does not replace a specialist consultation.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Relationship Patterns Test: Why Do I Repeat the Same Relationships? as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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