Getting Your Ex Back: The Truth About Breakup Coaches
Considering getting your ex back? Discover why breakup coaches offer biased advice and what psychology really says. Learn a healthier approach to healing.
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Articles on relationship psychology, communication patterns, and conversation analysis.
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Heartbreak: 5 Steps to Heal & Move On After a Breakup
Navigate heartbreak with CBT strategies. Learn 5 stages of healing, avoid common traps, and rebuild your life after a breakup. Find hope and practical tools.
Read article →Father's Absence: How It Shapes Your Love Life & Healing
Discover how a father's absence impacts your adult relationships. Understand the psychological effects and find CBT tools for healing and rebuilding your love life.
Read article →Breakup Survival: 25 CBT Steps to Heal & Rebuild Your Life
Navigate your breakup with clarity. This guide offers 25 CBT-backed steps to help you heal, understand your pain, and rebuild your life after a relationship ends.
Read article →Survive a Breakup: 7 Steps to Heal & Move On Effectively
Learn how to survive a breakup and heal effectively with this therapeutic guide. Understand the neuroscience of heartbreak and find a concrete path to recovery.
Read article →How to Survive a Breakup: 5 Steps to Heal & Move On
Navigate breakup pain with 5 CBT-based steps to heal and move on effectively. Understand your experience, avoid traps, and rebuild a fulfilling life.
Read article →Impostor Syndrome: 5 Ways Self-Esteem Works Against You
Impostor syndrome affects high-achievers. Understand how conditional self-esteem fuels this feeling and learn CBT strategies to overcome it effectively.
Read article →Indifference in Seduction: A CBT Guide to Authentic Connection
Discover the true power of indifference in relationships. Learn how to cultivate authentic indifference, not coldness, for stronger connections and reduced emotional investment.
Read article →Jealousy & Infidelity: 7 Steps to Rebuild Trust
Understand the psychology of jealousy and infidelity. Learn practical steps to survive betrayal and rebuild trust in your relationship effectively.
Read article →Left for Someone Else? Heal Betrayal & Rejection Now
Being left for someone else brings unique pain. Understand the psychology of this double betrayal and find concrete steps to rebuild your life.
Read article →Manipulation in Relationships: Understand & Break Free Today
Learn to identify and overcome manipulation in relationships. This guide offers CBT strategies to break free from control and rebuild your autonomy.
Read article →Rebuilding Self-Worth: Why You Doubt Yourself & How to Change
Discover the real reasons behind self-doubt and learn effective CBT strategies to rebuild lasting self-worth. Transform your relationship with yourself.
Read article →Relational Manipulation: Recognize 7 Tactics & Break Free
Understand relational manipulation tactics like gaslighting and love bombing. Learn how to recognize the signs and develop strategies to protect yourself and regain control.
Read article →Dating in 2026: Your Psychological Guide to Modern Seduction
Navigate modern dating in 2026 with this complete psychological guide. Understand the science behind apps and attraction for healthier relationships.
Read article →Modern Seduction: Your 2024 Psychological Dating Guide
Navigate modern dating with this psychological guide. Understand attraction, app dynamics, and build authentic connections for healthy relationships.
Read article →Women and Seduction at 50: Not a Decline, a Transformation
Turning 50 is a powerful transformation, not a decline in seduction. Discover psychological insights to navigate this life stage with confidence and power.
Read article →Self-Confidence Test: Evaluate Your Relational Well-being
Take our 60-question self-confidence test to understand its impact on your relationships. Gain clarity and build healthier connections today.
Read article →Rebuild Self-Esteem & Confidence: A CBT Guide to Lasting Change
Discover how to rebuild self-esteem and lasting confidence using CBT tools. Understand its pillars and transform your relationship with yourself for a stronger you.
Read article →Self-Esteem: 7 Steps to Rebuilding Your Worth From Within
Rebuild your self-esteem with this complete guide. Learn CBT techniques to challenge negative beliefs and foster lasting self-worth and confidence.
Read article →Stop Being an Emotional Punching Bag: A Survival Guide
Learn to identify manipulation, toxic relationship signs, and trauma bonding. Use CBT strategies to protect yourself and rebuild your well-being.
Read article →Over 190 applied psychology articles
The Psychology and Serenity blog offers over 190 articles by Gildas Garrec, CBT practitioner in Nantes. Each article draws on validated psychological models (Gottman, Young, attachment theory, CBT) to offer practical insights.
Couple Communication — Gottman’s 4 horsemen, the 5:1 ratio, stonewalling, NVC
Attachment — Anxious, avoidant, disorganized styles, path to secure attachment
Emotional Dependency — 10 signs, self-assessment tests, CBT strategies
Ghosting & Dating — Ghosting, breadcrumbing, curving, orbiting, zombieing
Manipulation — Gaslighting, coercive control, narcissistic abuse, psychological violence
Infidelity — Understanding, forgiving, trauma bonding, rebuilding
Anxiety & Stress — Relationship anxiety, burnout, rumination, insomnia
Jealousy — Pathological jealousy, retroactive, social media
Breakup & Grief — The 7 stages, no contact, relationship PTSD
Couple & Cohabitation — Moving in, arguments, libido, mental load
Parenting — Parental alienation, co-parenting, blended families
Young Schemas — 18 early schemas, cognitive distortions
Dating Apps — Mental health impact, paradox of choice, dating fatigue
Mental Health — When to consult, online therapy, CBT vs EMDR
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